OK, 'recieved incoming this session' is false.
Queued uploads = 0
Active uploads = 1(yippee)

In advanced stats: only looked at uploads
Requests URN get total = 22
Responses normal total = 22
Request methods get total = 22
General - completed responses = 1
completed file transactions = 1

Does this mean anything?? Still can't do port fwd, will try again tomorrow.