Ah...

Ahhhhhh....

From old grannie and those ancient experiences...

DO NOT be connected to the network in general !!!

DO NOT allow yourself to connect to Ultrapeers...

Private means private...

The 'fun' part is learning how to avoid others connecting with you when trying to D/L files that they have 'pending' with you...
You may have a 'history' with others who have your address in a pending download as a source... Geddit ?