Simple & sweet: http://www.whatismyip.com/ Oh by the way, having Chat enabled is supposed to help with Direct Connect. Oh I forgot. Your outgoing address should be listed above the DC box with a 6346 after it; eg: xx.xx.xx.xx:6346 which is what your friends would need to enter to Direct Connect to you. If you don't go thru port 6346 then obviously it'd be different. But that's the default port LW normally goes thru. So anyway, you need to commenicate your address to them & vice versa for firect connect.