OK you need to do a number of things.
1. Configure both your firewalls for XP & McAfee here:
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/firewalls.shtml
2. Update your Java:
Java 1.4.2 (click on link)
3. Force ip within LW:
Force IP instructions & sample image
4. Forward a port on your cable modem: Motorolla SB5100:
Click on this link for instructions (this is not your exact model but the instrucitons will be identical. Use
Port 6346 Don't forget to set up a static IP (instructions are there) & read them carefully.
5. After this things should be a-ok
Here's some hints on optimising LW:
A well set-up LW can start to automatically continue its dwnlding after it's settled down perhaps 2 out of 3 times you open LW. Optimising LW & Maximising Uplds & Dwnlds A (1st post only) & also Part B which is even better & last & least are search & dwnld hints. The latter one I've been thinking about re-writing for some time. That's just for playing it safe. eg- I show all speeds & qualities.