I don't use Win XP so I don't have all that xtra stuff. Just be careful of the spychecker that belongs to M$.
The ones I'm aware of that are apparently trustful are:
ad-ware , &
Spybot - Search & Destroy , &
Spy Sweeper
Which anti-virus are you using?
Are you using Windows XP? Did you configure your firewalls to allow Limewire (LW) full access:
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/firewalls.shtml Do you know if you have win XP SP1 or SP2?