See
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=31072
Are you talking about sharing the library via LW or iTunes. The latter I know nothing about. I think you need to go to iTunes Preferences>Sharing & tick the option for Sharing my music.
Does this answer you question?
PS: This tutorial might also help I'm not sure:
http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/tutorial/index.html