I did 2 searches, one specifically barmagggnattt.mp3 with no results.
Do this test: Bug Report instructions & sample image Is it True/False? If it's false it means you're firewalled somewhere.

By the way the best way to direct connect is to make sure you both have Chat enabled, & have some open upload & download slots & bandwidth. If you'e too busy uplding or downlding then it will make it difficult to DC. See: http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=30911 for some tips on DC. Also if you or your brother can't see your own ip address on the direct connect search window it means you'er firewalled.