Can you attach a log of your session?
Just remember to censor your private-network name ( ***** ) before posting here, else you'd expose it.
Did you read the guide to making a private-network in Phex?
http://cvs.sourceforge.net/viewcvs.p...To.txt?rev=1.3
If you decide to use it, please tell me, if it works! (I never had the chance to check it in long-term operation (not enough people found to participate in the forum till now)).