ok, after much playing around now, I have actually seen the right click menu pop up on the monitor page. To get it to show up, I must first highlight some entry in the list, and click the "kill upload" button on the bottom. (Yes, I wait until I have an ended connection to "kill", not an active one.) Then, after I have killed something, I can single left click on anyone in the list, followed by a single right click to get the "chat" option. However, all it seems to do is to pop up 2 seperate windows, both with my IP address in them, so it's not really working....
-T