Ok, here's my dilemma. I'm working on a toshiba laptop and I have have looked in my norton and changed settings, i've looked in my limewire and changed the port settings, because i'm using a router for wireless connection. NOTHING is working. I am so angry I don't know what else to try. I've tried changing my firewall settings..........nothing....please someone help me out. I feel like I've tried everything, but it's always says "connecting" and it never connects. HELP!!!