I shut down the xolox client and did this and to my dismay. There were 3 active connections to my computer. Dont try to tell me its a delay dropping the connection either. I have a few easy steps for solving this:

Click Start/settings/control panels/add remove programs.

Highlight xolox

click add remove

click yes

click delete all files

VOILA!!!!! problem solved. and if another Gnutella client crashes my system after I uninstall it!!!!!!!