your LW is having troubles getting connected (quite a pain to fix--usually involves firewalls, routers, and people who don't want you using your computer for file-sharing). LW should connect automatically for most users.

Maybe you can get lucky: try downloading one of the free files (legal too!) from www.magnetmix.com

maybe that will help get your LW recognized and connected to others.

If not, read the forum rules about the kinds of technical info people need to help you, and start exploring the many answers already given in these forums. That will give you a better idea of what you're up aagainst.

cheers