Please don't cross post!!!
This question is often asked. most recently in the thread I have linked. follow the links in that thread.
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...dia+and+player
There is a search the forum button above right which fill help you find previoud topics discussed. and there is the limewire user guide which is not 100% up to date but you may have missed. It is here. If you downoad it use the zip version the other one is broken I think.
http://www.limewire.com/english/content/userguide.shtml