LOTR,
I havse tried everything possible (I think).

I have disabled windows firewall,

on my router allowed port 6346 as a virtual server to always be open,
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an the test and it said "your test worked",

went to limewire tools option advance. firewall and placed all those diffrent listing ports with both UPnP and manual port forwarding (6346)selected,

called cox and they said my service does not block 6346

Deleted and reinstall lime wire several times

Delete limewire folder

Called D-link about the router 614+ and they said that there use to be a force IP tab in the option>firewall that worked but that doesnt exist in 4.9.30.

I have a P4 1.3
512 ram
Win XP sp2
4 gigs of space left
Cable connection at home
windows firewall disabled avast antivirus program