New info everyone. I just replaced my old Linksys BEFSR41 router with a cheapo $7.99 Airlink101 AR504 and everything is fixed. I was getting random disconnects from game servers and ICQ. The $7.99 router has more functions then the $200 Linksys and has current firmware support. It works with Limewire's UPnP automatic router configuration just great.

Sorry for the false alarm and blaming Cox for crappy service lately.

-Kent