I hope I am doing this right.

I just downloaded Lime Wire on my moms computer. But my dad is getting really pissed off that every time he gets online it pops up and asks him to upgrade. Is there any way that we can get lime wire to pop up only when we click on it? I did go to options and under connections I opted not to automatically connect. but every time we go online it pops up anyway. PLEASE HELP if I don't get this resolved soon, I have to delete the program.