Here's the link to test the port. Yep, tried it and it said the test worked.
http://www3.limewire.com:6346/
Ok, so it sounds like my computer is not receiving the incoming connection request. I'm not using a router but I am using a hub. However, the results are the same whether or not the hub is in the loop.
Also, it seems my success is intermittent. As an experiment I DL'd a file and I got a good DL speed. I deleted it and waited 10 minutes and DL'd it again. Good speed. I repeated this 6 more times and I only got three good DL's...the rest sucked.
Still trying to wrap myself around this incoming connection. Would any of the settings in Phex's firewall/proxy menu affect my situation?