This looks like excellent advice, although on mac I realize it seems to be impossible to close Limewire without doing this anyway

So that must be why I never encountered the problem..... except once when I was trying to connect unsucessfully as an ultrapeer. Dissabling ultrapeer capabilities cured that one.
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I thought you were runing a Limewire museum piece along with your computer, but I realise that perhaps it is 4.9.37 and you made a typo