Thanks for responding!

I have a windows XP computer.
I have not tried it on my boyfriends computer (he has a laptop) because he has different songs than me and I really don’t want his songs on my ipod.
I have the ipod nano that holds 1000 songs.
When I plug it up into my computer my ipod just says “do not disconnect” for a long time and it will not stop saying that until I unplug it myself even when it still says “do not disconnect”.

Hope that helps so I can figure out what I’m doing wrong?
At first I was thinking I had a setting on my itunes that was wrong but I’m not sure?