Realise it or not, you have 2 firewalls. Norton & XP. Disable your XP firewall: go to the control panel, double click on Windows Firewall, check the disable box.
Then for Norton see *Configuring Norton Internet Security

After opening LW, let it settle for a while & allow it to connect on its own. You should see at least 3 green bars at the bottom left corner before you can search & downld. Sample image: Connection Bar at bottom left of window sample

If you can't connect after 30 mins, then go to LW's menu bar, select Disconnect, & wait half a min, then File > Connect & wait some time again. If still no success, go to LW's menu bar, Tools>Options>Connections & uncheck Connect on startup. (Also go to Options>Speed & tick Disable Ultrapeer Capabilities. Don't forget to press Apply button after these changes.) Then Quit LW. Then re-open. Wait 15 mins, then go to LW's menu bar, File>Connect ... wait 30+ mins for it to connect.

If none of these ideas work then get back to us. But try to answer more of those questions above.

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