I don't know about Netgear, but there will either be an external UPnP switch on the device, or you'll need to log into it using your browser to see if there's a UPnP option you can activate. Type in http://192.168.1.1 or http://192.168.1.99 in your browser to log into your netgear device. You'll prolly have to log in. Now check your options. If your router is UPnP enabled, then so should LW be set as such.

This may or may not be of help: http://kbserver.netgear.com/inquira/...78#__highlight OR this http://kbserver.netgear.com/inquira/...iction=kb_file & possibly this http://kbserver.netgear.com/products/WGR614v6.asp

If you need to manually port forward then see http://portforward.com/routers.htm

Both the listening port & connecting port should be the same unless you wish to manually port forward a separate port your router for each.