I know how you feel ... and the answer is no
Just stop sharing the wreched thing ... that's what I did after 3 days of total lunacy
Actually I had 2 TV shows up on Phex ... nothing else. It seemed like a nuisance for any one to see any of my other files and not have a hope in hell of downloading them.
I would have thought with your set up <jealous snarl> you would be able to run two progs side by side ....no problem ... like Phex and LW