I'm not a wmp specialist. I rarely use wmp. Other programs can do just the same things & even more perhaps. 1.
dBpowerAMP, - 2.
WinAmp, - 3.
Quintessential (QCD), - 4.
iTunes
* Good tagging tools:
http://massid3lib.sourceforge.net/
And some of those can also burn cd's such as winamp & iTunes.
It's odd you can't get a good volume. In many mp3 programs, you can increase the volume & also equaliser settings via the id3 tag. So that when you go to play it back next time, it sounds louder.