Obliteration, have a look through this thread & try UK Bob's advice:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=51685

If that doesn't help, see here & follow Grandpa's advice (a more detailed explanation of lonestarsecurity's post in the previous thread):
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...195#post189195

I've probably confused the hell out of you but just give it a go