here is the netstat i promised...
after about 10 mins the connections will go to time wait and then close out. later with out even opening anything that connects to the internet i will begin to show ip address established / connected to me on port 80.

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C:\Documents and Settings\Midian After Dark>netstat -a -n

Active Connections

Proto Local Address Foreign Address State
TCP 0.0.0.0:135 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 0.0.0.0:445 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 0.0.0.0:58581 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 127.0.0.1:1034 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 127.0.0.1:59591 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 192.168.1.100:139 0.0.0.0:0 LISTENING
TCP 192.168.1.100:1135 68.142.81.3:27030 ESTABLISHED <----limelight networks, llc
TCP 192.168.1.100:1142 69.28.148.250:27014 ESTABLISHED <----limelight networks, llc
UDP 0.0.0.0:445 *:*
UDP 0.0.0.0:1029 *:*
UDP 0.0.0.0:9370 *:*
UDP 127.0.0.1:123 *:*
UDP 127.0.0.1:1900 *:*
UDP 192.168.1.100:123 *:*
UDP 192.168.1.100:137 *:*
UDP 192.168.1.100:138 *:*
UDP 192.168.1.100:1900 *:*