The only reason a lot of music nowadays is given a bad name is because when a teenager does something really stupid like vandalizing, opening fire in a school, etc. the music is the one that gets blamed. Music has no affect on a person's behavior. These kids were screwed up in the head long before they listened to that type of music...... well, maybe not those Colombine kids. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders so I think you should be able to listen to whatever you want!