Sounds like RealPlayer's not your default any more. If you change it back to being the default player, you should see the Real icon next to your songs again
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How are you moving songs to R/P? Do you have it set to automatically add from LW? If you do, just make sure it's looking in the right folder. Try changing the time (eg if you've got it set to search every 60 mins, change it to every 15 mins & see if that gets things moving)
Try just going File > add file to library. Add 1 file & see what happens.
Or, go File > scan disk for media. Try to add that way.
It's been ages since I used RP but I never had any probs with it not adding songs. Just make sure the songs you're trying to add are in a format that RP will play (Tools > preferences > media types > select. Configure it from here).
Please don't post your question twice, it gets confusing!