firstly- please use fullstops and commas, your message is almost impossible to read.
this could be a result of your firewall/antivirus automatically shutting down an "unsafe" program
check your firewall settings and see if LIMEWIRE is listed as an "exception"
if it is - or if your firewall isnt running (and it should be!!!) then go to...
Controll panel
internet settings
security tab
make sure all java scripts are enabled (and active x too for other stuff)
set them both to medium/low settings
if this doesnt work post another - more precise - explanation of whats happening
rob