Ok, I followed the guide on portforward.com exactly for my model, but when i run
http://www3.limewire.com:64049 instead of
http://www3.limewire.com:6346/ it times out.. yet, it says it works for 6346 and i never even forwarded that port. that is really weird.
I didn't reboot my router after forwarding the port because I couldn't figure out how.
Thanks for your help so far though.