If you revert your popups to default & then choose 'always use this answer', that annoying box won't appear every time you want to download!
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...176#post154176

If you're always getting 'waiting for busy hosts', either be patient & wait for the hosts or search again. Vary your search terms. Try the All Types search instead of a more specific search, this can give you really different results. Or try searching just for the album name, sometimes that works really well.