Can you run the Activity monitor while FW is running and keep a note of the Real and Virtual Memory every so often.
Have you run previous versions of Limewire or Frostwire?
Which version of Java do you have (Frostwire>About Frostwire)
I am assuming you get a message "Frostwire has unexpectedly quit....."

Or....... is it just disconnecting?

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