1. Disable your XP firewall.
2. Set up your Norton Firewall as like here:
Configuring Norton Internet Security.
3. If you have a high speed modem/router, then check both the UPnP & Port Forward sections here:
Connection problems? Check here first! (click on link)
4. Try deleting your LW Preferences folder whilst LW is
closed; instructions here:
Point #2 & 3 in Fixes for Limewire (sample image included at bottom of page.)
5. You might also want to consider getting a patch for SP2:
MS & 3rd party patches