tiffanyyy,
Go through this thread, it has lots of info about connection/firewall problems. Your modem/router might have it's own internal firewall, so read the bits about enabling UPnP & port forwarding.
Connection problems? Check here first!
If you're still stuck, post back with your details. The second post in the connections thread will tell you the info we need
skkycaptain,
Click on the link below, it should sort out your language problem:wink:
How to change language