Looks alright now.

If your friends set up is correct as well, then you should be able to direct-connect. If that works then there is no doubt that the set up is correct

BTW if you use UPnP without a static IP then there is a chance that your IP will change often. Just look under the direct connect tab in Limewire after opening it. It will show IP+Portnumber. That's the exact number she would have to enter to connect to you.