please help...im, by now, after trying for 2 hours, pisst off, cause i paid for this, and its not loading, i already checked my norton antivirus setup for allowing the firewall thing, and did the same for the windows xp firewall. Now, according to limewire instructions with connections problems for the windows xp firewall, besides the ip address which i got, i have to put a port number...which is under tools and.....inside limewire, but since i cannot get it to load up, i cannot get the port number....please help, im getting sick of this and i've been a member for what....3 hours now?

i would really appreciatte it, sorry about being so pisst...is just frustating sometimes....