Ok ... well that's obvious you didn't even go to the original link I gave for things to try or try more than one of them. So good luck in the future mate. I wouldn't give a sh*t what you do so go ahead & go elsewhere. A good one to try is
Phex to see if you have the same problems.
You're an impatient prik eh mate. So well .. no loss to the network. You're obviously a leech ... take what you want & don't share back & disappear like a phantom. That's not what the gnutella network is designed around. So why not disappear off to Kazaa.