I want to send a file that's too big for email to a friend; or have them download the file from my computer using LimeWire Basic. We tried the Direct connection button at the bottom of the search column.

We both have the message that we're behind a firewall or a router. MY firewall is disabled. I had to to get the new router to function. I'm using just the router firewall now.

Is there a way for a direct file transfer for us to use?

Thanks for your help!!

Greg