Make sure the Windows firewall is off & just double check all your Norton settings, it might be worth your while to even reconfigure Norton from scratch.
Reconfiguring Norton Firewall

Check the thread below, see if the Windstream firewall mentioned there is part of the problem.
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...ght=windstream

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