let me see if i can help you help me lol

i just downloaded limewire.. the 4.2 something version (free one)
i am on a windows xp, have msndialer (usa) dial up connection
i disabled the windows firewall, and the norton security firewall

i am still showing a firewall detected when i use limewire. it claims to still be connecting but i cant get it to go past the first bar... and yes im being patient lol any suggestions? i went to the faq's but couldnt find any help there!

thanks so much