Thanks for the help, i have followed your directions going to that link and putting the port numbers in both ways and im almost positive the numbers are right. I am still on a firewall and i think its because the nat firewall. I turned off the tab that says firewall, the part im dont understand is the nat firewall. I tried to turn it off and it shuts me off the internet. the only thing i can access is the router and it is extremely slow. so if you have any more ideas im open to any suggestions. thanks for your time.