I tried the first thing but unfortunately i don't have zone alarm pro so I couldn't find the options to change port forwarding.

The second thing I tried, got the static-ip, and then let it port forward.

The third I don't think i could quite do because my Modem is bridged. I'm not sure if that allows port forwarding.

Also I kept the port 6346 because when i tried to make a port over 10000 to 60000 limewire froze.

With my router allowing the port through i turned off zone alarm and tested to see if it would work but still it was at 1 bar still trying to connect...

Also I had the same sort of setup with my router/modem before and an older zonealarm and Limewire worked on windows XP. Could it be Vista or the new zonealarm?