Is the cross-platform where I should be posting to you? I have gone there and read a lot of threads. It's where I learned to download from # 10-20 people, keep my uncompleted folder clear, retry down****ds, etc. I have been trying to solve this problem for a while. But you where the only one to tell me welcome to the Gnutella Forums, so tag your it.
One thing you forgot to tell me is how I can see your reply on the forum instead of using the link in my email.