He said if I looked at it thats not the problem, he said lying about it is the problem. Which I understand, but I DIDNT download it. Theres a trust thing going on right now anyway for months. He just doesnt believe anything I say cuse I lied about something 7 months ago and hes taken it farther then it should have been. So its not the porn itself but the fact he *thinks* Im lying. I wouldnt be sitting here wasting my time if I was lying. I would dismiss it and act like I didnt care what he thought. But I dont want him thinking THIS about me. That bothers me since its so not true. Im pregnant with our third child and have been with him almost 10 years. You would think if I had interest in girls he would have known something was up years ago. BUt since i never would even think about that this is really stupid to me and Im trying to clear my name. Im tired of the fighting and just want him to see he is wrong. He doesnt think anyone can put stuff on your computer without you downloading it. I showed him thats wrong but he thinks its bulls**t anyway and that it cant happen. Although I have read about that plenty on here and we stopped using Kazaa years ago cuse it brought in alot of viruses. He just doesnt think this can happen so Im here to prove him wrong~ Thanks for explaining whats a firewall. i heard of them but didnt know what they were exactly~ I dont know whats up with the mcafee, we got this computer from someone else and it had stuff already on it and that was one of them. Maybe they downloaded it wrong or copied it. I dont know~~