Okay, deep cleansing breath.
Multiple postings will not get you faster results.

Yeah, the license thing. I guess you're not worried copyright at the moment. So click yes.

Some downloads occur at less than 1kbps (busy hosts, poor/slow connections, etc).

Right-click on the tab that appears at the top of the search results window, (the tab that lists the keyword you searched for), and select 'get more results'. You can download multiple copies of the same song, just select 'append number' if a dialog box appears. Keep whatever comes in first.

The more you are able to calmly describe your problem, the more likely one of us will be able to help you. Hang in there; we'll try to figure this out tonight.