Oh that's either if you're manually port forwarding your modem/router, else for your OSX firewall.
For OSX firewall settings, see
OSX Firewall settings for Tiger/Leopard
As for your modem/router if it needs port forwarding, I might be able to help advise if it needs to be.
If you can supply these details:
System details - help us to help you (click on blue link)
In the meantime, set the OSX firewall up or turn it off, also
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