Is your LW connected at all? How many green/blue connection bars do you see?
Try removing all LW rules from Norton's firewall & then start from scratch & add new ones. The 2 links below have some info.
PortForward.com - Free Help Setting up Your Router or Firewall http://www.gnutellaforums.com/226610-post6.html
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