Vista has its own firewall. You will need to go to the control panels to disable that. Norton should be fine if Vista firewall is not running.
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One thing to try in meantime is:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/334551-post21.html download that file, unzip, take the first gnutella.net file you see out of the folder & replace the older gnutella.net file inside the LW preferences folder;
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/genera...der-vista.html