Right-click heading bar. Or did I forget to say that.

That will give you more column view options. Same applies on all the other windows.
You should be seeing 3 stable ultrapeers. If up to nine or more coming & going, it means your connection is unstable. I did warn you to be careful about that.

(My example shows 5 ultrapeer connections, because I'm using LW Pro. My bandwidth was shaped mid month & now on dial up speed for another couple of days, but no problems connecting.)