I'm not sure how you are going about doing what you are doing. But, if you want your downloaded music to go to WMP's playlist, see
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/tips-t...rning-cds.html; ie: Adding a Monitor folder to WMP, is probably the way to go.
Not sure what you mean trying a different site. Gnutella network is a p2p network, not a website. What files you download are from other persons just like yourself. One of them might even be your next door neighbor. lol
ie: p2p sharing is sharing of files between those who wish to take part on the network of sharing files.
I personally share many thousands of files.