BigF,
I know where you are and trust me I've been there. You arent doing anything wrong, whats happening is that people select a specific file to download and you happen to be on that list of hosts as well because at the time your file was on the list. The person who wanted to download the file went on vacation or didn't run their gnutella program for a week or so. When they jump back on and run their program your ip is one of those it jumps to first. Not to worry though bud, it happens. Thats why I wanted a refresh option to clear that up, its just real hard for a single program to fix all that in one shot for millions of gnutella users
For more than a week a single file I no longer shared kept popping up on my upload list. If its a popular file it will take a while for it to file through. Just sit back and wait, it'll clear itself out.